- Andrew Rapoza
- 3 hours ago
- 12 min read
Protection vs Victimization of the Vulnerable
After 40 years of reading and researching 19th century advertising and literature to understand popular perceptions about the quality of life, I can tell you that society’s focus, then as now, was on physical health. Despite the unsettling “before” stories of the hucksters, people usually recovered from most sicknesses: fevered brows cooled down, guts stopped puking, and wounds healed. The sincere and insincere often praised the product or healer that cured them and life went on.
In contrast, mental health issues were unpopular topics in the public discourse; squeamish Victorians tried to hide the subject in the dark cellar of public embarrassment, alongside discussions of venereal disease, while whispering about probable links between the two. Capitalizing on the public's discomfort, unabashed nostrum vendors weren't shy to claim their nerve tonics or brain restoratives cured nervousness, melancholy, hysteria, and insanity. As ridiculous as such promises sound now, at the onset of mental decline, they were popular options to avoid the devastating alternative. When erratic behaviors were identified by family, medical professionals, government officials, or a combination of all three, those stricken were often isolated from society in almshouses or institutionalized in facilities that the century frequently referred to as the “lunatic asylum” or the “madhouse.” Unfortunate souls suffering from any type of mental illness or decline were often institutionalized like pariahs, forbidden to return to the society of former friends or fitting back into the family circle. And to be clear, confinement was not limited to such severe issues as bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and psychotic disorders, but also to those suffering the cognitive decline, behavioral changes, and motor function losses that often accompany aging, like those that manifest as Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s diseases.
I have a particularly tender spot in my heart for this issue because my dear wife of almost 49 years has been enduring a decline from Parkinson’s Disease for 16 months now. I have recently added a letter, dated 1881, to my collection that describes the efforts of the author, Hannah, to be a caregiver to her mother and I feel a shared bond with her experience, being in many respects like my own. It touches my heart to have a private glimpse of this woman’s courageous efforts to care for her mother; I feel her worries and her hope. It has been a privilege that Hannah shared her story with me and I hope to honor her efforts by sharing them with you.
Hannah shared several experiences that, intentionally or not, demonstrate two very different outlooks on the treatment of the mentally and/or emotionally vulnerable public in that year: the compassionate care she gave to her declining mother and the victimization of the emotionally vulnerable she witnessed by a spiritualist medium that brushed through her world.
Hannah, the Caregiver
Hannah’s letter reads like a play without a program. We don’t know the last name of her family or how many unnamed members there were in the cast; we’re only sure of Hannah, the letter writer; her sisters Lyde & Mollie to whom she jointly addressed the letter; Harry, who seemed to have the role of her husband; and then there were Mother and also Father, who was only referenced in terms that implied he was recently deceased, his loss perhaps being the primary reason for Mother’s decline. The only other well-described character in Hannah’s letter was the archvillain of this story, Mrs. Bliss, who we will meet later.
The vast majority of the story is set in Hannah’s house; from the scant evidence provided by the letter, Mother was living with Hannah and Harry at their home, which was apparently in London, Ohio, roughly 25 miles west of Columbus. The location of the house where Hannah's parents had been living is not clear, but Lyde and Mollie were apparently living nearby, watching after it in Mother’s absence.
![Portion of the first page of an 8-page letter from Hannah to Lyde and Mollie. Folded letter, missing envelope. Dateline: London, Apr 1st 81 [1 APR 1881]. Rapoza collection.](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7441e9_306a1a5f12344f159fedcf9d4c3c3448~mv2.jpeg/v1/fill/w_980,h_682,al_c,q_85,usm_0.66_1.00_0.01,enc_avif,quality_auto/7441e9_306a1a5f12344f159fedcf9d4c3c3448~mv2.jpeg)








